discussion

7th Feb 2009...
discussion...

ok people. let's discuss something ya? recently most of the public transport had the sign ' priority seats to elderly, preganant lady lalala. '

1st of all, let us refer to...
http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/singaporeseen/viewContent.jsp?id=54703
and one of the comment that i actually saw...

SupremeJudge said on 07 Feb, 2009
I AM IN THE SAME TRAIN, I SAW WHAT HAPPENED. This lady is saying the truth. If the woman is not pregnant, i slap her in her face. b***h is the right word for this stupid Pregrant b***h.

lol. after seeing this, my stand got stronger.

IF tis is the fact...
the big WHY i had is.... COURTESY should be done from the heart instead of taking some other order by other people isnt it? IF its a MORAL thing, we should do it willingly instead of following to the signages isnt it? from a self motivated thing to being compulsory, i seriously dont see the need to? when i see a pregnant lady, i will give way. but if its like, the above scenerio mentioned, taking pregnancy as a way to boss around, treating it as 理所当然?! is it right?!

so, is signages to ask us to perform a kind act good?
ya. following it as a rule and forgotten it that its actually a moral act? so is there something wrong with this?

原先让位的出发点改变了. 从内心散发出的善意变成了指令然后再变成应该, 到最后, 必须,一定要.
这个感觉好奇怪, 也好矛盾.

AND.
some people LIKE to SNAP people who DONT give up THEIR seats for PREGNANT lady, OLD elderly... and put them on the INTERNT for people to comment.. PLEASE la. since u can snap the person face so near, why cant you just STAND up or even SPEAK UP to the one needed and offer YOUR OWN seat?! if the retaliate point is ' my camera good,can zoom, cannot ah?' OKAY LOH. you WIN.

to sum all these up.
my personal view is....
A kind act should be done by individual and not by orders isnt it?
回归原点, 好意应该是由心出发的啊!

你们说呢? 给点意见吧~ ^^